View Full Version : First time for everything!!
Charlie Brown
21-09-2008, 03:32 PM
Well well, as many of you know I had my first wedding yesterday, (Saturday) and what a great success it was!
We arrived at 5.00pm, in dads half arctic van with, "Aura Designer" furniture written all over it...the guests probably thought we were moving in!
I jumped out to realize photos were taking place. It was a quiet sunny day in lovely green surroundings. I could tell already the wedding must have cost a bomb! The first person I saw was a man, near the bushes. I walked over to him, tapped him on the shoulder to discover that he was urinating in the bush! What a good start, I thought! He led me over to the photos and all was peaceful until he shouts "Lee Family, Oi Calling Lee's." Everyone turns round, some in disgust, "Come on, The Disco Bloke is here, wants to know where to unload!" I am then approached by a kind refined lady who gives me directions to the "manor house."
I'm in a separate room to where the meal is taking place, so for the first time by self, slowly start to setup. Sound first so I can play some Jazz and Swing as the guests enjoy their champagne.
Once the sound is setup, I hear two infectious laughs coming from the reception. I soon discover it is the 60 year old waitresses. They can’t open the bottles of bubbly or pour a glass of beer, so I end up helping them setup up the bar for a good 45mins, whilst having a laugh with them. I explained it's my first wedding, and in the process knock over a bottle of bubbly, over the white table cloth. I could of died, but they didn’t seem to care much and just laughed it off. :)
Lights next and I found this quite hard, especially the goal post, but after a good 40 minutes it was done, and I was very proud. That was it know for a few hours! My pals for the night were the waitresses and the photographer. He ate for England, and poured himself 3/4 of a pint glass of champagne, I couldn’t believe it, and thought it was really unprofessional.
8.30, was time for the first dance. That went well, and I found it very easy talking on the mic. Straight after the first dance I played, Walk of Life-Dire Straits. The rest of the night the dance floor was quite full. Majority of the music was standard cheese (everything on rob's list), but in particular, "Tiger Feet-Mud" and "When You’re Gone-Bryan Adams" and "Brown Sugar-Rolling Stones" were the best.
Early finish at 11, so all in all had a very good night. A few came up for cards, and one lady had a two minute talk about her wedding, so that was also very good:)
Many thanks for all your advice guys....Charlie
The_Blue_Dragon
21-09-2008, 03:36 PM
Looks like everyone had a great time, well done. But didnt think your surpose to point lasers down to the dancing floor? Ive always been told to point them to a wall over peoples heads
Solitaire Events Ltd
21-09-2008, 03:40 PM
Congratulations Charlie and well done.
I'm really pleased it went well for you.
Charlie Brown
21-09-2008, 03:42 PM
Looks like everyone had a great time, well done. But didnt think your surpose to point lasers down to the dancing floor? Ive always been told to point them to a wall over peoples heads
Hmm yes you are right, but the room was so small It was tricky, and the beam was diluted with smoke.....
Congratulations Charlie and well done.
I'm really pleased it went well for you.
Ahh thank you very much:)
djsteve10
21-09-2008, 03:44 PM
Well done Charlie, Glad you had a excellent 1st wedding.
Shakermaker Promotions
21-09-2008, 05:04 PM
Well done mate....it will get easier over time too.
Excalibur
21-09-2008, 05:38 PM
Congrats young man, store all the knowledge you have gained, it will definitely be useful at some time. :D
Kernow
21-09-2008, 07:22 PM
Well done Charlie :thumbs_up:
DJWilson
21-09-2008, 07:32 PM
Well Done, you doing very well at your age. Keep it up. You said about the van with writing on it, I wouldnt worry as the van im ment to be using on the 11th doesnt work! Got to wait and see.
All the best.
daz226
21-09-2008, 07:58 PM
Charlie i remember when you first came to the forum and all the questions you was asking. I thought at the time here is a young kid wanting to learn as much as he can and be the best that he can be so its really refreshing to see just how far you have come in a short space of time.
give your self a massive pat on the back awesome job
Charlie Brown
21-09-2008, 08:03 PM
Thank you very much for all your comments, very kind!
Apart from praise is there any criticisms on my setup, things that I could change/add/take away?
Jiggles
21-09-2008, 08:07 PM
Its big with little on it, is my only thing that i can see.
Charlie Brown
21-09-2008, 08:14 PM
Its big with little on it, is my only thing that i can see.
Hmm do you mean the goal post?
Jiggles
21-09-2008, 08:16 PM
Yeh Too much open space IMO
ppentertainments
21-09-2008, 09:00 PM
Yeh Too much open space IMO
For a wedding I think its ok to have that space. Not what I would choose for lighting but that is personal choice - watch that laser though.
Be wary of your goalpost legs. The one close to what looks like an exit door seems to stck out a lot. Also I think the speakers would be better with bass bins on floor with tops or on stands.
For your age though don't worry. They (and you) had a good night so be pleased with yourself.
Well Done, you doing very well at your age.
He is the same age as you. lol
Thank you very much for all your comments, very kind!
Apart from praise is there any criticisms on my setup, things that I could change/add/take away?
I would say take away the strobes. No need for a wedding really.
Also if possible maby get rid of the prosound speakers and get some bass bins. Even 1 would help improve the sound. :)
One Vision
21-09-2008, 09:50 PM
Absolutely fantastic Charlie, well done fella and not a bad little setup you have there :bow:
Penfold42
21-09-2008, 09:52 PM
Absolutely fantastic Charlie, well done fella and not a bad little setup you have there :bow:
:agree:
Thames Valley Discos
21-09-2008, 09:53 PM
yeah, the second wedding is always better, and the wife is younger this time.
Charlie Brown
21-09-2008, 10:14 PM
I would say take away the strobes. No need for a wedding really.
Also if possible maby get rid of the prosound speakers and get some bass bins. Even 1 would help improve the sound. :)
Hmm I will have to agree to disagree. The strobes maybe for most weddings aren't appropriate but for this particular crowd they really enjoyed them. I used them through out the night-quite a bit.
The pro sound speakers, sound really very good. They can't compare to Mackie or Bose but for the jobs I do at the moment they are ok. I use the class D speakers as bass bins-it gets me by...but I totally understand what you are saying and is something I will invest in, in the near future. Thanks for your advice....taken into serious consideration:)
For a wedding I think its ok to have that space. Not what I would choose for lighting but that is personal choice - watch that laser though.
Be wary of your goalpost legs. The one close to what looks like an exit door seems to stck out a lot. Also I think the speakers would be better with bass bins on floor with tops or on stands.
For your age though don't worry. They (and you) had a good night so be pleased with yourself.
Sure, I would not haven chosen that lighting either-but I don't have much choice in the matter! I think some led lights will be my next investment...but for the mean time I would like to see the cash coming to spend on my self a bit. £300 to pay off then I'm done, so the 10th October is going to be on big party for me!
As I said, I cant put poles through the class D as they aren't bass bins.
Thanks again guys:) Any thoughts on lighting or anything else would be great!
rob1963
21-09-2008, 11:51 PM
I spent a while quoting & replying to this thread between 11pm & midnight, but after a few minutes I noticed my post had disappeared.
As far as I know it didn't contain anything unsuitable, so unless a mod or admin deleted it for some reason, either something is seriously wrong or my account has been hacked.
I'm starting to get really fed up with all these problems I seem to be having lately.
Thames Valley Discos
22-09-2008, 06:47 AM
I spent a while quoting & replying to this thread between 11pm & midnight, but after a few minutes I noticed my post had disappeared.
As far as I know it didn't contain anything unsuitable, so unless a mod or admin deleted it for some reason, either something is seriously wrong or my account has been hacked.
I'm starting to get really fed up with all these problems I seem to be having lately.
Credit crunch my friend!
theoloyla
22-09-2008, 01:33 PM
Yep well done Charlie.
Charlie Brown
22-09-2008, 04:55 PM
I spent a while quoting & replying to this thread between 11pm & midnight, but after a few minutes I noticed my post had disappeared.
As far as I know it didn't contain anything unsuitable, so unless a mod or admin deleted it for some reason, either something is seriously wrong or my account has been hacked.
I'm starting to get really fed up with all these problems I seem to be having lately.
Oh you are joking! :bang: I kinda look forward to your threads Rob you could always we do it but shorter if you wish....:D :D :D :D :D :D
Excalibur
22-09-2008, 05:41 PM
I spent a while quoting & replying to this thread between 11pm & midnight, but after a few minutes I noticed my post had disappeared.
As far as I know it didn't contain anything unsuitable, so unless a mod or admin deleted it for some reason, either something is seriously wrong or my account has been hacked.
I'm starting to get really fed up with all these problems I seem to be having lately.
Did you not know? It would be the newly installed quality control filter which removed your posts Rob. :p :D :D
rob1963
22-09-2008, 05:45 PM
Did you not know? It would be the newly installed quality control filter which removed your posts Rob. :p :D :D
In that case, from now on my post count will increase by 1 for about every 10 posts I do!
:(
Shaun
22-09-2008, 06:00 PM
I spent a while quoting & replying to this thread between 11pm & midnight, but after a few minutes I noticed my post had disappeared.
As far as I know it didn't contain anything unsuitable, so unless a mod or admin deleted it for some reason, either something is seriously wrong or my account has been hacked.
I've just checked. There's not been any posts deleted in this topic, either by a moderator or anyone using your account.
I'm starting to get really fed up with all these problems I seem to be having lately.
Have you been to the quack lately, Rob? He'll give you some cream and your problems will all be gone before you can say "a pair of Sennheiser HD25s please!"
Charlie Brown
22-09-2008, 06:09 PM
Hmm how annoying!!!
djsteve10
22-09-2008, 06:10 PM
Have you been to the quack lately, Rob? He'll give you some cream and your problems will all be gone before you can say "a pair of Sennheiser HD25s please!"
Quality headphones I must say but.............. Rob still has a phone :D:D:D
rob1963
22-09-2008, 06:20 PM
I've just checked. There's not been any posts deleted in this topic, either by a moderator or anyone using your account.
Well that's really weird then, as I definately did a post between 11pm & midnight last night...which I entered & I then saw on my screen, but about 15 minutes later it had gone.
Maybe I was in the twilight zone.
I'm completely stumped.
Charlie Brown
22-09-2008, 06:39 PM
Well that's really weird then, as I definately did a post between 11pm & midnight last night...which I entered & I then saw on my screen, but about 15 minutes later it had gone.
Maybe I was in the twilight zone.
I'm completely stumped.
Don't worry about it Rob, It's just a pain thats all....thanks for trying any how:)
rob1963
22-09-2008, 07:04 PM
Don't worry about it Rob, It's just a pain thats all....thanks for trying any how:)
Charlie,
From what I can remember, I basically said three things about your post.
1) I was pleased to hear your first wedding went so well for you.
2) While it's good to be helpful, I wouldn't have gone off and spent 45 minutes helping the waitresses until AFTER I'd finished setting up & sound-checking the disco...and possibly not even then (not that long, anyway).
3) I was pleased to hear that the old crap I play at weddings week in & week out also worked well for you!
:)
Excalibur
22-09-2008, 07:16 PM
Well that's really weird then, as I definately did a post between 11pm & midnight last night...which I entered & I then saw on my screen, but about 15 minutes later it had gone.
Maybe I was in the twilight zone.
I'm completely stumped.
I suspect early onset Alzheimers. Rob's next question will be " Do I come here often? " :D
Charlie,
From what I can remember, I basically said three things about your post.
1) I was pleased to hear your first wedding went so well for you.
2) While it's good to be helpful, I wouldn't have gone off and spent 45 minutes helping the waitresses until AFTER I'd finished setting up & sound-checking the disco...and possibly not even then (not that long, anyway).
3) I was pleased to hear that the old crap I play at weddings week in & week out also worked well for you!
:)
1) Snap.
2) Old age Rob. Charlie obviously is still at the age where conversing with nubile young ladies is a high priority. ;) :D
3) I bet a lot of it is the same as I play. ;) :D
rob1963
22-09-2008, 07:46 PM
I suspect early onset Alzheimers. Rob's next question will be " Do I come here often? " :D
1) Snap.
2) Old age Rob. Charlie obviously is still at the age where conversing with nubile young ladies is a high priority. ;) :D
3) I bet a lot of it is the same as I play. ;) :D
They are all fair comments, Excalibur, but I need clarification from you on something.....
.....Do I come here often?
Charlie Brown
22-09-2008, 08:03 PM
Charlie,
From what I can remember, I basically said three things about your post.
1) I was pleased to hear your first wedding went so well for you.
2) While it's good to be helpful, I wouldn't have gone off and spent 45 minutes helping the waitresses until AFTER I'd finished setting up & sound-checking the disco...and possibly not even then (not that long, anyway).
3) I was pleased to hear that the old crap I play at weddings week in & week out also worked well for you!
:)
Thanks Rob, got their eventually!
Hmm yes I did rather enjoy it setting up the bar, it's quite fun! But I shouldnt have spent as long as I did your right!
Yep thanks for the music again:)
rob1963
22-09-2008, 08:06 PM
Yep thanks for the music again:)
My pleasure Charlie.
I'm really pleased it worked well for you.
:)
Corabar Steve
23-09-2008, 07:19 AM
unless of course you hit the preview post button instead of the one to submit it.
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