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Mission
09-10-2008, 02:25 PM
Quoted for a wedding next year, accepted, sent off booking form and didn't hear anything for a month. Contacted them and they said sorry but finances are a bit tight they are now going to use an ipod :bang: :bang: :bang:

Should I:

A. Reply with a kind thankyou and wish them well for the wedding.
B. Not Reply
C. Let them know what they are letting themselves in for.
D. A & C

An ipod for a Birthday, well thats bad enough but for a wedding :omg:

rob1963
09-10-2008, 02:28 PM
A. :)

Shaun
09-10-2008, 02:30 PM
I'd be tempted to send them this video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXj4P3iz2yg). However, instead I'd reply with a kind thank you and wish them well for the wedding.

Danno13
09-10-2008, 03:01 PM
Offer them PA & lighting hire :) Already had one of those this year, they enquiried too late to get a DJ anyway and indicated that they wanted to choose all the music, so I quoted them for a couple of lights and a PA system.

As it happened, my gig cancelled on that night (with full payment) so I just used my own system and didn't have to buy anything especially, which was my original intention.

Shakermaker Promotions
09-10-2008, 03:05 PM
I would use option A and say to thanks and good luck to them. They obviously are'nt bothered about their big day then are they.

Danno13
09-10-2008, 03:10 PM
They obviously are'nt bothered about their big day then are they

Depends on the circumstances, some people just want small intimate weddings with background music, and maybe the odd song where people might dance. It may not even be a case of their budget either, as we all know you can get DJs for less than the cost of hiring the gear to play an iPod through anyway.

Adam_F
09-10-2008, 03:36 PM
Sorry to hear that Tone,

Its got to be option A really. That way your not going to rub them up the wrong way, and they'll respect you for still wishing them well.
Who knows, they might have family or friends looking for a DJ, and might suggest you.

Mission
09-10-2008, 03:47 PM
Yes I was going option A: anyway, I'm too nice to say anything else anyway :D

And as you say they may decide to have a party and book a DJ next time, maybe for their first wedding Anniversary.

It was a Friday in April as well, so would of been a good booking to have.

Never mind, you lose some and you lose some :D

nigelwright7557
09-10-2008, 06:16 PM
An ipod for a Birthday, well thats bad enough but for a wedding :omg:

I did an IPOD wedding a couple of months back.
They just hired my kit and me to set it up and then plugged in the grooms IPOD.

I obviously did a better price as all I was doing was working the lights.

Why dont you do the same ?

Solitaire Events Ltd
09-10-2008, 06:51 PM
That was the wedding that had the B&G arguing about it and you're advising someone else to do it?

nigelwright7557
09-10-2008, 06:54 PM
That was the wedding that had the B&G arguing about it and you're advising someone else to do it?

So, make sure you take to the groom AND bride !

If your getting plenty of work then just let the IPOD gig slip otherwise a gig is a gig and is better than being sat at home earning nothing.

Shakermaker Promotions
09-10-2008, 07:10 PM
But you were sat in the bar doing nothing were'nt you Nigel? You went out for the night with your gear, set it all up and then let them use and abuse it and charged them a low price?

If it were me I would have rather stayed at home or charged them the same amount for being there whether I was actually DJing myself or they were using the equipment. It's my time they pay for.

nigelwright7557
09-10-2008, 07:15 PM
But you were sat in the bar doing nothing were'nt you Nigel? You went out for the night with your gear, set it all up and then let them use and abuse it and charged them a low price?

If it were me I would have rather stayed at home or charged them the same amount for being there whether I was actually DJing myself or they were using the equipment. It's my time they pay for.

No.
When I quoted for the job I was told they didnt want a DJ chatting all night and they just wanted to work the IPOD themselves. They said I could sit in the bar all night.

After I realised they werent very bright I decided to sit with the gear to keep an eye on things and worked the lights to stop getting bored.

What upset me was they got a cheap quote without a DJ and when I got there the bride wanted a DJ without paying any more. The bride and groom clearly hadnt communicated on the disco. I bet he got some earache when she got him home as he was just a tight wad.

PropellerHeadCase
09-10-2008, 09:56 PM
Stick with A - snippy comments make you look bad, and educating them to the perils of the iPod will likely go unread.

rob1963
09-10-2008, 10:45 PM
Hey, don't knock ipod weddings...

...I do dozens of them every year!

:D :D :D :D :D

Corabar Steve
10-10-2008, 07:30 AM
Really? How many digital gigs have you done?

Dragonfly
10-10-2008, 07:33 AM
80 gb ipod classic best purchase this year by far digs me out of more holes than anything else. mainly personally but it does come to gigs incase the two lappys start spewing.

rob1963
10-10-2008, 08:19 AM
80 gb ipod classic best purchase this year by far

Same here, although my SECOND best purchase this year...

...the BEST being a letter followed by a number.

:D

Corabar Steve
10-10-2008, 08:23 AM
Rob, when was your first gig with the D2 & iPod combination?

rob1963
10-10-2008, 08:32 AM
Rob, when was your first gig with the D2 & iPod combination?

I wonder where this is going.

Let's find out.

My first digital gig was on Saturday 2nd August, Steve.

Having checked my diary, I'm pleased to confirm that it was the first of 13 digital gigs I've done so far this year...with a fair few more to come before the end of the year.

Corabar Steve
10-10-2008, 03:31 PM
:sarc: :sj:

gaza
10-10-2008, 04:52 PM
I wonder where this is going.

Let's find out.

My first digital gig was on Saturday 2nd August, Steve.

Having checked my diary, I'm pleased to confirm that it was the first of 13 digital gigs I've done so far this year...with a fair few more to come before the end of the year.



So it must be a Bakers dozen.:D

rob1963
10-10-2008, 06:23 PM
So it must be a Bakers dozen.:D

So far!

I wonder why Steve wanted to know the date of my first digital gig, though?

:shrug:

Excalibur
10-10-2008, 06:46 PM
80 gb ipod classic best purchase this year by far digs me out of more holes than anything else. mainly personally but it does come to gigs incase the two lappys start spewing.

Two laptops? :eek: :eek: Is that the equivalent of one Cortex? :confused: :p

Mission
10-10-2008, 07:49 PM
Hey, don't knock ipod weddings...

...I do dozens of them every year!

:D :D :D :D :D

I know Rob and have nothing against them. Works as a HD and backup player well enough. But just wonder for the B&G, things such as cueing up the First dance and as we DJ's do welcoming them to the floor, etc.

Corabar Steve
11-10-2008, 09:22 AM
So far!

I wonder why Steve wanted to know the date of my first digital gig, though?

:shrug:

Just curious.

rob1963
11-10-2008, 09:35 AM
Fair enough, but your memory can't be too good then, as started a thread to give a rull report at the time, and it received 1,158 viewings and 87 replies, at least one of those replies being from yourself.

:shrug:

Corabar Steve
11-10-2008, 10:35 AM
Nowt wrong with my memory, just curious as to how you could've done dozens of iPod weddings since you started using it.
Hey, don't knock ipod weddings...

...I do dozens of them every year!

:D :D :D :D :D

rob1963
11-10-2008, 11:02 AM
just curious as to how you could've done dozens of iPod weddings since you started using it.

Then I will explain. I said I do dozens of ipod weddings each year. I've done 13 ipod discos so far this year. There are 12 in a dozen.

Therefore, a higher number than 12 is more than a dozen, and when you have more than one of something, you normally add the letter "s" to the end of the word to signify this.

In other words, more than one is plural (I found this dictionary definition of plural "consisting of, containing, or pertaining to more than one"), and when describing something which is plural, the letter "s" is usually added to the end of the word. 13 is more than a dozen, hence my use of the word dozens.

Apart from that, the year is not over yet, and I still have a number of (ipod) weddings to do anyway.

Corabar Steve
11-10-2008, 11:12 AM
Semantics. Let's just say that I think the use of the word do in the context of the sentence was erroneous

I'm not going to let you draw me into another of your petty squabbles, let's just leave it at that.

rob1963
11-10-2008, 11:15 AM
I'm not going to let you draw me into another of your petty squabbles

I'm very pleased to hear it.


let's just leave it at that.

There's nothing I'd like more!

:thumbsup:

Dragonfly
11-10-2008, 11:16 AM
in fairness and not starting or joining in ...... to my rather young simple mind dozens implies to me personally more than 1 dozen ie. 2 dozen equalling 24 , more than A dozen would be a better phrasing at this point in time , that said bit pedantic :D :D :D

rob1963
11-10-2008, 11:21 AM
in fairness and not starting or joining in ...... to my rather young simple mind dozens implies to me personally more than 1 dozen ie. 2 dozen equalling 24 , more than A dozen would be a better phrasing at this point in time , that said bit pedantic :D :D :D

Dave,

The plural (when you add the s) simply means more than one, but doesn't have to refer to a whole number.

Therefore, you don't have to wait until you have 24 of something before you can use the word dozens.

The word "plural" (when you add the s) doesn't mean two or more, but simply more than one.

:)

Dragonfly
11-10-2008, 11:24 AM
But surely more than one of the word preceding it??? ie. dozen which is 12??

just looked it up it merely says a large amount what dreadful abuse of the english language !!!

rob1963
11-10-2008, 11:28 AM
But surely more than one of the word preceding it??? ie. dozen which is 12??

Yes, and I HAVE done more than 12 digital discos...I've done 13!

:D

Dragonfly
11-10-2008, 11:31 AM
actually the definition i just looked up had 2 meanings the first said more than one set of something . ie. more than one set of a dozen .....

the other just said ..... a large amount of something so i guess everybody is right and the english language sucks.

Corabar Steve
11-10-2008, 11:36 AM
I'm very pleased to hear it.



There's nothing I'd like more!

:thumbsup:See, you can't help yourself. What need was there for that


in fairness and not starting or joining in ...... to my rather young simple mind dozens implies to me personally more than 1 dozen ie. 2 dozen equalling 24 , more than A dozen would be a better phrasing at this point in time , that said bit pedantic :D :D :D
To address this, dozens being a plural of dozen, plural being more than 1 ie 2 or more. Dozen being 12, 2 or more times 12 being 24, 36, 48 etc...

My issue was with the phrase "I do dozens" coming at a time when it cannot possibly be factually accurate. It would imply that it is a regular occurance, when in fact so far 13 gigs have taken place.