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Charlie Brown
01-01-2009, 09:29 PM
Oh what a night.....indeed what a horrible awful terrible time I had:( I will keep it as short as possible as not to bore you all! Setup in the afternoon and the house where I was playing at looked great with the decorations etc.

I arrive at 7.30 playing quiet background music; Dean Martin, Drifters, Del Shannon, The Crickets etc. The beginning of the night goes really well as all my background music is just on shuffle so I can be with all my mates outside etc. (The evening was going to be a very relaxed as the hosts are good friends of mine-but I was still getting paid-bonus!) At around 11pm I started the usual disco stuff. The countdown was fantastic and everyone was up for the long mix! http://www.mobilediscodirectory.co.uk/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=4841&stc=1&d=1230847589

Fireworks were great-phoned mum and grandparents, and then went back on, starting with my favourite song; "Walk of Life-Dire Straits" My father was attending the gig as we are good friends with the hosts. I love him and he does a lot for me, but at the moment he has some drink problem which is bad news. I won't go into too much detail but if it wasn't for him I would have had a great night-instead it was awful.

Anyway the disco is underway and this woman called Claire starts dancing with my dad. They used to go out 20 years ago. He wasn't showing much interest but she carried on. I leave dad and my £1000 laptop for 5 minutes and let the numark cue is do its thing. Whilst I'm gone Claire's boyfriends pushes dad away and deliberately pores half a pint of bear over my pride and joy-the laptop! Dad is so intoxicated he doesn't realize that the boyfriend has done this. 2 minutes after the drama I come back to discover my expensive laptop is swimming in water. I turn the lights on, pull the leads out the mixer, rip the battery out and hold it upside down. The beer pores off it but the laptop frizzles. :( I'm very upset at this point. People came up to me and apologised for what had happend. Then the head of Carlton (ITV) did a speech on my mic. He congratulated me etc and asked if we could have a quick whip around to put some money towards a new laptop.

The party continues with me using cd’s. My cd player then starts to skip as if the motor that turns the cd’s round isn’t working. Dad continues to drink more, and embarrass me. I’m starting to get rather appalled at the way he is acting. I then get a call saying that my granddad is being rushed to hospital as he has had another fit. He suffers from Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s. My mum then phones me up, upset as her fiancé and her have just split up.

Then my other granddad that is on warfin starts to have serious nose bleeds at his home. I seem to be the only sober one in the family so have to give clear instructions to him on the phone. An hour later he still has the bleed so I have to leave the party upset and very miffed about the whole evening and get a taxi to his house. I then arrive at his house to discover him in a mess. I call an ambulance immediately and within 20 minutes we are on the way to hospital. (The same mega mix is still playing at this time at the New Years Eve party) I spend an hour in casualty and he is admitted to a ward. This is at about 3.30am. I then get a taxi back to the party and finish my poor, disrupted set. Then at 5.00am till 1.00pm today I’m sat at granddads bedside in the hospital ward. I’m sorry to let of like this but its times like this when I just need to let it all out, because it gets me so frustrated. Dad has simply disgusted me and I don’t want to have anything to do with him for a few weeks to prove my point.

You may think I’m being a mardy so and so, but I have kept this as brief as possible, and believe you me a lot more went on, I’m just too embarrassed and ashamed to say. I’m sorry but it was one traumatic night. My family are just crazy and strange, and I just like to have a bit of normality in life. DJ’ing and doing the thing I love is just a great distraction from home life and allows me to clear my mind of all my worries. Let the music take me away.......but at least there is one positive thing, my laptop is fixed:)I hope you all had a good night, and it wasn’t dramatic as mine! The pictures arnt very good, but let you see how the room was set out. The speakers were either side of me:) I will post the video once its uploaded on youtube.
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=YcLUlrj8x74

Jiggles
01-01-2009, 09:47 PM
Do you think you could paragraph that! :eek: Too much text to read like that!

nigelwright7557
01-01-2009, 09:58 PM
Well it could have been boring instead lol

djsteve10
01-01-2009, 10:16 PM
Really sorry to hear about what happened over the New Year but things can only get better.

So did you keep the money that you had raised in the run around for a new laptop then?

Keep on solidering on my friend and times will be better!

Grahame Case
01-01-2009, 10:36 PM
Oh Charlie,


Sorry to hear your night turned out to be pretty dreadful.

As Steve has just said, things will be better around the corner, look at this as a low point, getting all the bad things out of the way at the start of the year.

keep at it!

Charlie Brown
01-01-2009, 10:53 PM
So did you keep the money that you had raised in the run around for a new laptop then?



Yeah thats another positive. I am in two minds whether to give it back though, but I don't know who put the money in.:o so.....:whistle:

nigelwright7557
01-01-2009, 10:54 PM
Yeah thats another positive. I am in two minds whether to give it back though, but I don't know who put the money in.:o so.....:whistle:

It was me ! :D

Excalibur
02-01-2009, 12:30 AM
Charlie I'm sorry to hear about your tale of woe, but it sounds like you did a magnificent job in circumstances where older and wiser folk could easily have gone to pieces. Well done that man, and I hope your relatives are on the mend.

Solitaire Events Ltd
02-01-2009, 10:13 AM
Charlie I'm sorry to hear about your tale of woe, but it sounds like you did a magnificent job in circumstances where older and wiser folk could easily have gone to pieces. Well done that man, and I hope your relatives are on the mend.

Agreed. :)

Kernow
02-01-2009, 06:23 PM
Oh Charlie, I'm so sorry you had to put up with all that.
It would seem that absolutely none of what happened was your fault.
It is to your very great credit that you showed such maturity and presence of mind to keep the gig running and deal with multiple family emergencies too.

I really admire you and you are a shining example, certainly worthy of the respect of us all.

Solitaire Events Ltd
02-01-2009, 06:29 PM
I really admire you and you are a shining example, certainly worthy of the respect of us all.

And just to show I haven't got a downer on everyone, as some might think, I totally agree. :)

Dynamic Entertainment
02-01-2009, 06:32 PM
Well done on keeping it together pal, like its been said plenty of folk would have just given up.

PS, Nice set-up :)

Bouncy Dancefloor
03-01-2009, 04:57 PM
i hope you got paid cash, because the way your luck is going, i can see the cheque bouncing :p

Charlie Brown
03-01-2009, 06:52 PM
Right well just thought I would give you a little update on my life...I promise you wont hear me moan any more. This is a disco forum after all and not a "Aunt Agony" site:)

Both Granddads are now out of hospital and are both on the mend...thank god! Mum and the boy friend are going to give it one last shot (the argument was that he needs to get a proper job, and not rely on mum. He owns and works in a band, but his business is seriously being affected at the moment:) They have been together for years..and he is great so thats good:)
All in all everything seems to be coming back together....Must dash I'm on at 9, should be an interesting gig. Last time we had riot vans and police dogs come...will let you know how I get on:) Thanks all, Charlie

Grahame Case
03-01-2009, 06:55 PM
Right well just thought I would give you a little update on my life...I promise you wont hear me moan any more. This is a disco forum after all and not a "Aunt Agony" site:)

Both Granddads are now out of hospital and are both on the mend...thank god! Mum and the boy friend are going to give it one last shot (the argument was that he needs to get a proper job, and not rely on mum. He owns and works in a band, but his business is seriously being affected at the moment:)
All in all everything seems to be coming back together....Must dash I'm on at 9, should be an interesting gig. Last time we had riot vans and police dogs come...will let you know how I get on:) Thanks all, Charlie


I'm waiting for the photos already :)

Charlie Brown
03-01-2009, 10:27 PM
Yeah you should.....I have a lot to tell but got half way through writing my post to realize my phone lead is at mums so I can't upload the videos etc. It was awful, and we got the riot vans again!

Tony Scott
03-01-2009, 10:45 PM
Riot vans? Brings back great memories from '94, Criminal Justice Act stopping us listening to repetitive beats outdoors in groups of 4 or more....sorry I went off on one there! :D

Sorry about your terrible night Charlie, sounds like things are improving though! :)

KaraokeDJ
04-01-2009, 07:56 AM
Wow! You sure do end up in a lot of catastrphes Charlie! Riot Vans - flipping heck. Haven't seen any of them at a disco in about 20 years! Hope everything is getting sorted. Sorry to hear about the nightmare on New Years and amazed at how well you coped.

Good luck to you Charlie.

Excalibur
04-01-2009, 08:41 AM
Yeah you should.....I have a lot to tell but got half way through writing my post to realize my phone lead is at mums so I can't upload the videos etc. It was awful, and we got the riot vans again!

Charlie you're a legend. :approve: I only got four local plods at mine. :(
BTW. Has anybody noticed how Police are getting younger? :confused:

Jonathan Ford
04-01-2009, 11:33 AM
Charlie you're a legend. :approve: I only got four local plods at mine. :(
BTW. Has anybody noticed how Police are getting younger? :confused:

It's not the police getting younger mate... ;)

Solitaire Events Ltd
04-01-2009, 11:38 AM
And todays prize for stating the obvious, goes to.....

Penfold42
04-01-2009, 11:45 AM
:jumping:

Charlie Brown
10-10-2010, 08:49 PM
After reading that first post, bloody hell I used to be a drama queen! :sofa:

Anyhow, this Saturday is the ladies 50th who hosted the NYE night.

Should be an interesting one with a few familiar faces. :sj:

:whistle:

Corabar Entertainment
10-10-2010, 09:12 PM
....bloody hell I used to be a drama queen! :sofa:





































Nah...... Too easy :zip: