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Shakermaker Promotions
21-06-2009, 02:31 PM
I know this topic has been done a 1000 times in one shape or form but I wanted to comment on another DJ I saw last night.

I was invited to a private party for my mate's missus' 40th birthday in Burnham, Surrey. He didn't want me to DJ as he wanted me and my missus to enjoy the night so along I went.

Now, I didn't make any comments towards the DJ and as far as he knew, I was just a guest like everyone else.

The DJ himself was the venue's resident DJ - He was a weird looking guy, probably approaching 60, about 5ft tall with what looked like Spina Bifida (that is an observation and NOT me taking the micky ok) and looked very much like the small one out of the Chuckle Brothers. When he was on the mic he sounded like he was on helium and you could just about hear him over the music (which people were telling him to turn up).

The Presentation (Show) - The Speakers were on the floor and not on stands (The DJ had someone with him all the time so I don't think it would have been much of a problem for them to be on stands?)...not sure of the make of them as I had never seen them before. There were two light panels infront of the console (table) and various multicoloured rope lights laid out along the tops of the panels. Scattered around the room were various T-Bars with effects on them and I thought at one point that the guy must have had a job lot of Magic Mushroom lights as they were the only effects I could see. He also had an Equinox Nebula laser on a T-Bar behind him. This was the first time I had seen one in the flesh as it were and even without smoke it looked very impressive. This will be one of my next purchases this week.

The Music - As guests were arriving the music was low which was good but all of the lighting effects were going strong. It seemed like a megamix of 70's tunes was playing and I'm not 100% certain but it sounded like it wasn't the original artists either. As the night progressed and more guests arrived, it almost seemed as if the DJ was scared to turn the music up. It was a musical mess if I am honest with you as it seemed like he was trying everything to try and suss the guests out. Now and then he would make an announcement which you could hardly hear and at other times there were gaps of silence. Ok, it may have been 1 or 2 seconds and as a DJ you notice this straight away but other people seemed to notice too.

Overall - Well, there was one point early on when I looked around me and was surprised at just how many kids were there. I didn't see any of them approach the DJ to request songs though. You could see however that one table of under 16's (at a guess) were raring to go and when the DJ played the Scissor Sisters, they leapt out of the seats and straight on to the dancefloor. It was early and I thought at the time "Well done mate, you've got a good 'up for it' crowd here and you've got them straight away"...I expected a good job from him but it wasn't the case sadly. He didn't stick with stuff to get them to stay where they were and played something totally different which had them walking off the dancefloor........this was until he put on 'Number 1' by Tynchy Stryder and then they all jumped up again...BUT as soon as he had finished that one he went back to something totally different again and the girls went back to their table again...It was a shame because I feel that he had the potential of a really good night in his hands and he didn't take advantage of it. He never encouraged people to get up and dance or say that he was taking requests, infact he hardly said anything but he DID stand there with a smile on his face all night (you could just about see him behind the decks).

Negatives - Well, I don't want to be too damning but it's definitely NOT how I work or present myself. If the opportunity is there to have a good night then take it. He had people up dancing within minutes but didn't take advantage of that. The dancefloor never had more than 6 or 7 people dancing (over 100 there) and it was all too random. The only time people danced for more than one song at a time was when he played the usual 'Cha Cha Slide' / 'Macarena' / 'Saturday Night' etc etc stuff.

Positives - I liked the Nebula Laser but sadly that's the only positive that I can remember.

Cheers
G

Excalibur
21-06-2009, 02:47 PM
I know this topic has been done a 1000 times in one shape or form but I wanted to comment on another DJ I saw last night.

I was invited to a private party for my mate's missus' 40th birthday in Burnham, Surrey. He didn't want me to DJ as he wanted me and my missus to enjoy the night so along I went.
Sorry for saying this again, but I really struggle to enjoy myself under these circumstances. I spend most of the night warching the Disco and DJ. Pathetic I know, but that's me. :( :o :o :( I'm the type who listens to every track of the background Muzak. :o :o :o :o :o



Overall - He never encouraged people to get up and dance or say that he was taking requests, infact he hardly said anything but he DID stand there with a smile on his face all night (you could just about see him behind the decks).

Negatives - Well, I don't want to be too damning but it's definitely NOT how I work or present myself. If the opportunity is there to have a good night then take it. He had people up dancing within minutes but didn't take advantage of that. The dancefloor never had more than 6 or 7 people dancing (over 100 there) and it was all too random. The only time people danced for more than one song at a time was when he played the usual 'Cha Cha Slide' / 'Macarena' / 'Saturday Night' etc etc stuff.
Cheers
G
It's nice to see that some of us past their sell by Dinosaurs are doing it the same as you young 'uns are . :D :D :D
Hope you had a good night nevertheless:D

Shakermaker Promotions
21-06-2009, 03:03 PM
I had a good night because I was with my missus on a night off (a rarity) and a good group of friends. As I said, the Disco didn't seem like it got out of 1st Gear all night.

rob1963
21-06-2009, 03:13 PM
Interesting report, Gary.

I'd be interested to know if the DJ asked your mate's missus for any requests in advance, and if so how many of them he played.

I can probably guess the answer!

SC Events
21-06-2009, 03:23 PM
As strange as this may seem, I hate going to parties and think of every excuse I can to get out of going to them, so I would not be too happy if a mate invited me to a party, but didn't want me to be the DJ.

As far as being the DJ goes...It's fantastic and I am more than happy to do the DJ'ing rather than sitting and watching the night pass.

.....I don't 'do' dancing either. I guess that would make me a pants guest too! :D

Shakermaker Promotions
21-06-2009, 03:32 PM
The guy who invited me is a very good friend of mine and has helped me a lot in the past. Even though I don't like attending these things as a guest myself (because I would rather be working and earning), I felt it was the least I could do. The same guy is backing me with our new Casino venture.

DeckstarDeluxe
21-06-2009, 03:58 PM
Hmmm interesting topic this. I was in the midst of writing a post saying I dont like going to these, but then again thinking about it some more I have to say I do get something out of watching other people djing. Firstly despite the evening not being great as gary has said HE has seen a lighting fixture in action and is getting one for his show, so garys show has improved as a result of saturdays event? Ive seen a fair few shows which Ive picked the best bits and used them myself and also seeing a poor show gives me a boost myself because if I put myself side by side mine would look far more impressive.

CRAZY K
21-06-2009, 04:13 PM
I know this topic has been done a 1000 times in one shape or form but I wanted to comment on another DJ I saw last night.

I was invited to a private party for my mate's missus' 40th birthday in Burnham, Surrey. He didn't want me to DJ as he wanted me and my missus to enjoy the night so along I went.

Now, I didn't make any comments towards the DJ and as far as he knew, I was just a guest like everyone else.

The DJ himself was the venue's resident DJ - He was a weird looking guy, probably approaching 60, about 5ft tall with what looked like Spina Bifida (that is an observation and NOT me taking the micky ok) and looked very much like the small one out of the Chuckle Brothers. When he was on the mic he sounded like he was on helium and you could just about hear him over the music (which people were telling him to turn up).

The Presentation (Show) - The Speakers were on the floor and not on stands (The DJ had someone with him all the time so I don't think it would have been much of a problem for them to be on stands?)...not sure of the make of them as I had never seen them before. There were two light panels infront of the console (table) and various multicoloured rope lights laid out along the tops of the panels. Scattered around the room were various T-Bars with effects on them and I thought at one point that the guy must have had a job lot of Magic Mushroom lights as they were the only effects I could see. He also had an Equinox Nebula laser on a T-Bar behind him. This was the first time I had seen one in the flesh as it were and even without smoke it looked very impressive. This will be one of my next purchases this week.

The Music - As guests were arriving the music was low which was good but all of the lighting effects were going strong. It seemed like a megamix of 70's tunes was playing and I'm not 100% certain but it sounded like it wasn't the original artists either. As the night progressed and more guests arrived, it almost seemed as if the DJ was scared to turn the music up. It was a musical mess if I am honest with you as it seemed like he was trying everything to try and suss the guests out. Now and then he would make an announcement which you could hardly hear and at other times there were gaps of silence. Ok, it may have been 1 or 2 seconds and as a DJ you notice this straight away but other people seemed to notice too.

Overall - Well, there was one point early on when I looked around me and was surprised at just how many kids were there. I didn't see any of them approach the DJ to request songs though. You could see however that one table of under 16's (at a guess) were raring to go and when the DJ played the Scissor Sisters, they leapt out of the seats and straight on to the dancefloor. It was early and I thought at the time "Well done mate, you've got a good 'up for it' crowd here and you've got them straight away"...I expected a good job from him but it wasn't the case sadly. He didn't stick with stuff to get them to stay where they were and played something totally different which had them walking off the dancefloor........this was until he put on 'Number 1' by Tynchy Stryder and then they all jumped up again...BUT as soon as he had finished that one he went back to something totally different again and the girls went back to their table again...It was a shame because I feel that he had the potential of a really good night in his hands and he didn't take advantage of it. He never encouraged people to get up and dance or say that he was taking requests, infact he hardly said anything but he DID stand there with a smile on his face all night (you could just about see him behind the decks).

Negatives - Well, I don't want to be too damning but it's definitely NOT how I work or present myself. If the opportunity is there to have a good night then take it. He had people up dancing within minutes but didn't take advantage of that. The dancefloor never had more than 6 or 7 people dancing (over 100 there) and it was all too random. The only time people danced for more than one song at a time was when he played the usual 'Cha Cha Slide' / 'Macarena' / 'Saturday Night' etc etc stuff.

Positives - I liked the Nebula Laser but sadly that's the only positive that I can remember.

Cheers
G

Sadly predictable from my experience--but not ALWAYS the case.

ONE Hotel regular DJ with minimal equipment and personality---reason --I wont insult your intelligence by asking--heres a clue---its to do with the great British obsession:eek:

TWO No playlist--fatal in my opinion and a major mistake when you have the opportunity to get one---its a private party. I played without one last night and took requests but the Disco was largely irrelevant--the Barn Dance was what they really wanted.

Having said that the last invited function I attended was brilliant--DJ played a 60s night---which was requested--not too demanding though of course if you know your 60s;)

CRAZY K

Charlie Brown
21-06-2009, 10:29 PM
Once again another splendid post from my good friend Garry :D :approve:

I would LOVE to go to a party where I don't have to DJ. I would love to be entertained my a DJ playing all my favorites.... unfortunately it's yet to happen. Maybe the DJ who was working that night Garry could comment on some things that you do when working?

rob1963
21-06-2009, 10:39 PM
Gary, it's a shame you weren't at a disco in a different part of Surrey last night.

Then you might have been able to give a more positive report on the DJ!

;)

Solitaire Events Ltd
21-06-2009, 11:50 PM
I would LOVE to go to a party where I don't have to DJ.

You will when you come down to Reading. ;)

Charlie Brown
22-06-2009, 12:23 AM
You will when you come down to Reading. ;)

I'm still holding you to that one, for as long as both you and I live. :)

DJMaxG
22-06-2009, 05:59 AM
There are a lot of cases of DJs undercover.

I went to a Party back in October 2008, and this is what it was like.


2 X 12" Passive Carlsbro Gammas
Standard black Deckstand (no winch etc)
2 X Acme Impossibleds
2 X Abstract Moodbars
1 X Acme RGB DJ Skirt Starcloth
1 X Kam dual mic system (yellow/blue)
1 X Laptop (Mac or Dell)

The rest of the gear, I could not see. But he seemed to be controlling it all with the laptop's mouse. Sound quality wasn't majorly bassy (hence no subs), but was still great ... and too loud.

We had to walk out the room, and downstairs just to have a conversation.
I could hear music, as I entered the building.

The DJs set list was fantastic, I don't know how he did it, but played decent, not so popular songs, as we were entering, then progressed onto the Chart toppers and eventually the old classics towards the end. Then back to stuff like H20 Platinum quite late, during the last hour or so.

Beginning (before 9)
DJ Alligator - Blow My Whistle Baby (clean version)
Gym Class Hereos - Cookie Jar [Request]

Mid Way (Busy Part)
Pink
Agadoo
Abba - Gimme Gimme Gimme

Late Night - Towards End
H20 Platinum

The Party was at a local football club function room, holds about 100 people maximum. Time : 7:30 - 11:30

PropellerHeadCase
22-06-2009, 09:48 AM
It's a hard call isn't it, when you're a DJ, go to a party and risk having your night ruined by a crap DJ, or offer to do the job and miss out on a night off.

Charlie Brown
22-06-2009, 09:55 AM
Max, how the hell do you know that the laptop was either: "Dell" or "Mac" :confused:

DJMaxG
22-06-2009, 02:19 PM
It's a hard call isn't it, when you're a DJ, go to a party and risk having your night ruined by a crap DJ, or offer to do the job and miss out on a night off.

Based on what the user wrote for the thread starter, I would not say the night was ruined. There will always be someone better, DJs set their own standards. There are a lot of things that I agree and disagree with.

One of which is lasers being pointed directly in people's faces, for instance.