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Charlie Brown
01-08-2009, 03:06 PM
After my fantastic trip to mighty Reading, I thought I would post a full report/diary of my time there.

The start of my journey is spent in a lovely first class carriage with my complementary bacon and egg sandwich. The “first class host” is called Lucy and she cared for your every need ;)
This is where my venture to Reading began. Another hour on the train and I was to be greeted by the bearded man himself. I must admit I was rather anxious about staying at the home that belonged to the Thomas’s....I guess it was the unknown of staying with a different family. On the other hand, I was looking forward to a bit of peace and time away from my own hectic family life.

I arrived at Reading station with my 26 suitcases and spent around 15 minutes having a wild goose chase with Darren. It was exactly like a bigger version of hide and seek in the rain. The one way system is a “pain in the arse” he said. After an eventful game I clambered into his white van where I met Ben (Darren’s son) Ben is a really nice chilled lad who loves everything sporty. Polite and well spoken I could tell I was going to be staying with a nice family.

Once I had surveyed the house, he showed me where all his precious kit lived. Boy, was there a lot of stuff....he could open his own shop! I took note of the fact he looks after all his gear. Everything is in flight cases and in order. Look after your gear and it will look after you.
After a nice lounge around the house, a gorgeous pork dinner and observing him in the office it was time to pop the suit on and head off to the Wedding. The tom tom estimated that it would take approximately 1 hour, but Darren being a “professional” allowed an extra half an hour. The journey actually took 2 hours! The motorway had major traffic jams but on the other hand it allowed me to watch the planes coming to and from Heathrow. Something else I learnt....always allow plenty of time when travelling to a gig. Due to the traffic we did arrive 30 minutes later then we had anticipated but luckily they were still eating.

We setup the gear, but I must admit, I was very unsure what to do. I think we all have our “own way of doing things” and we all know what lead is where etc...but he did help me out and gave me the gaffa tape job. Funnily enough, he didn’t give me that job the next night? ;) :confused:
I was very impressed with the S & H booth and this is another lesson learnt, “more isn’t always better.” Darren used two led par cans and a Martin EFX. This is gave a great effect and was more than enough. The sound did sound superb too.

After playing some funky jazz as background music it was time to announce the first dance. Darren is a talkative confident fellow and this really shone through. Darren brings a whole new meaning to the world “personality DJ.” Another lesson I learnt...as long as the guests can hear what you are saying then it doesn’t matter what you’re saying. There is nothing worse than having a DJ speak into the microphone and people can’t understand what he is saying. The quality of the microphone became very apparent. I have learnt that a good quality mic can get you very far.

The beginning of the night he played standard party stuff and the way he mixed them was very clever! Let’s take for example “Love really hurts without you – Billy Ocean” although this is a “dancy” tune it’s also a bit “mowtowny” and he used this to his advantage. Instead of randomly skipping from genre or decade he worked through them in “genre” order. So after Billy Ocean he played something like The Temptations (Motown.) We continued to have a laugh behind the stand and I thoroughly enjoyed the night. There were some songs which he played towards the end of the night which I had never heard off. I can remember “Place your hands – Reef” then after that they all sounded the same to that. ;) The last song of the evening was sung by a group called “Elbow,” again, never heard of them.

We pack away and start the hour journey home, or did it take an hour? As Darren was speeding down the motorway we noticed that he was very low on fuel. He asked the tom tom to take him to the nearest petrol station but unfortunately when we arrived there it was shut. After driving to 4/5 different petrol stations in Surrey we eventually find one that was open. This added another 45 minutes onto our journey. Conversation was never short mind as I felt a tiny bit of connection between the two of us. I think we could relate to each other a bit, even though the age difference did scare him at times. ;)
Back home and we crack open a bottle of wine but unfortunately after watching Top Gear I was zonked out so I went up to bed around 2.30ish?
“Mrrrrr Brroowwwnnn, are you decent?” Is what I woke up to at 12.00pm the next day :sj: At first I half forgot where I was as there was just this man standing at my door with a glass of orange juice. :D

3 hours later I’m still sat in my PJ’s on Facebook. The smell of paella drifts into the lounge so off I go to inspect. What a chief Mr Thomas is! After a scrumptious meal of paella and mussels, I reluctantly have to go and get changed. :D

Changed and ready to go we set off to the Moat house. Luckily this only a 10 minute drive down the road. Tonight he is using a bigger rig ... as it’s a bigger room. 2 Par Cans, 2 EFX’s, 2 moving heads, 1 cluser laser (bloody fantastic!) and a megabar behind him :o ;) He is also using a RCF sub tonight which added a real “umph” to the sound.

I also meet Lee...who I refer to as “Action Man.” He is one of the most efficient roadies I have ever come across. He is a real hard worker and loves to get stuck in. Another lesson I learnt... Darren’s DJ’S have built up a lot of respect for him. He looks after them well so they are loyal to him. Never make enemies. Even at venues just be laid back and tell them what they want to hear “Hello there my name is Darren. What time would you like the music to finish? Ah that’s great...volume wise, if it’s ever too loud then please do come and tell me and I will turn it down. I never play over...because let’s face it, you want to get home so do I **laughs** Where do you want me to setup Sir? Fantastic that’s not a problem...we will try and pack away as quick as we can too.”
I learnt so much! Any way after the incredibly cheesy Ricky Martin tribute act..it’s time for Darren to do his thing. Playing a wide of range of music and interacting with the crowd he yet again exceeds my expectations. In this line of work you have to be a “people’s person.” You need to be aware, flexible, versatile and most importantly, you need to know how to handle different situations. Some people you come across in life are lovely kind folk...but you always get that complete idiot who knows better than everybody else....Darren handled this idiot on Friday night perfectly! :D
Disco king then plays “Number 1” and he lets me have a dance with the guests! I’m beckoned to the dancefloor by this 49 year old who is a mother of 10 :sj: She asks me if I’m wearing a wig...that’s as far as the conversation went! After having a boogie, Darren couldn’t resist to say “Don’t bruise him girls...his Mother would kill me!” I didn’t go red at all.....
Last song of the night is “Queen” and then action man starts work again....I take a par can off and action man has all 3 speakers in their cases, wires of the floor and into the box plus the stands were folded away!
Short drive home to a night in front of trashy tele...Darren has a drink or 10 and he forces me to drink this wine! :D :eek: He starts telling me a few stories that I find very amusing....
....off to bed at 4.45am!

Wake up the next morning, shower, pate on toast, quick bye bye to the family and he takes me to the train station. Shake of the hand and floods of tears :D I leave this lovely caring family behind.

Darren is a great man. Funny, cherry, short tempered and he was happy to help me. He has given me oodles of advice and I’m so grateful for the wonderful experience. The children are really polite, the wife is kind and Darren is Darren. :sj: I don’t think he realises how much I enjoyed the past few days....no matter how tired I got. To be fair it wasn’t just the disco’s I enjoyed but just being in someone else’s company was nice...I like Darren and hopefully it won’t be too long till we will meet again.

Train from Reading to Birmingham was lovely but from Birmingham to Nottingham is a bit shabby. The standard seats look better then the bloody first class.

I have a 70’s disco/surprise party tonight...but half of me doesn’t want to do it. I feel guilty...I don’t have the equipment or music knowledge Darren has, but in my own little way, I know I’m good at what I do, especially when I’m in my comfort zone. I have learnt so much from him and tonight they better be ready for a chatty DJ :D! Dad has broke down in Manchester so I have 1 hour to find a minibus or driver! :bang:

As we all grow up there are something’s we will remember and others we will forget. The past few days will be something I will treasure for a long time....who knows, this could just be the start for me.

Sorry for the long post folks....thank you Darren. Have a good weekend :)

JDB Entertainment
01-08-2009, 03:28 PM
Charlie that was a great "little" read!

Mr Brown are you decent... made me chuckle.

Glad you learned a lot and hopefully can put somethings you was impressed with inton practice at your gigs.

And Mr Thomas isn't Mr Grumpy then! ;) :P

James

axeman
01-08-2009, 03:43 PM
great read - good stuff

Shaun
01-08-2009, 03:46 PM
EXCELLENT post.

Kudos to Darren and his family for taking Charlie 'under their wings' for the weekend.

Glad you had a lot of fun, Charlie. :approve:

Excalibur
01-08-2009, 03:46 PM
Excellent read Charlie, loved it. :D

To be as good as the legendary Mr Thomas however, you need only one thing.










25 Years experience. :D :D :D The reason those of us over sixteen know so much is because we made all the mistakes so many years ago.

DeckstarDeluxe
01-08-2009, 03:48 PM
i got about 1/3 of the way through the post and I had to go make lunch. Im nearly finishing but tea is nearly ready........

HAHA. glad you enjoyed yourself Charlie. Did you do any videoing?

Charlie Brown
01-08-2009, 03:49 PM
Ah, I'm glad you all think it's a good read....

....keep em coming. I'm liking this :D

No, on a serious note, is there anything you don't agree with? Or would encourage more? :)

Lee
01-08-2009, 03:49 PM
it was nice meeting you charlie glad you had a good time

Action Man lol

Charlie Brown
01-08-2009, 03:50 PM
HAHA. glad you enjoyed yourself Charlie. Did you do any videoing?

Nah, I wanted to but I didn't get my new phone from the insurance in time. I filmed my gig log off that phone camera...it's pretty good.

Tom
01-08-2009, 04:07 PM
Nice little story. Longer than a Shakermaker post. lol. Will I see it in paperback form soon??? :lol:

The thing that gets me is that people who have not met Darren have not met the real Darren.

Glad you had a great time. Now all you need to do is take what you have learned from your few days with Darren and put them in to practice. :)

Charlie Brown
01-08-2009, 04:16 PM
I'm not "willy waving" or whatever but I have just come back to one enquiry...

Now the booking is in a really rough pub so I thought I was wasting my time. I rang anyhow and I have just managed to secure a £200 booking for a surprise 40th for her. I spent about 15 minutes talking about what I offer and she went for it. Now I know this isn't fantastic news...but that is really good money for the type of pub it is. :)

...The reason I posted this is because I used the stuff Darren as taught me and within the space of a few hours I already have another booking.

rob1963
01-08-2009, 04:43 PM
Fantastic post, Charlie!

Glad to hear you had such a good time.


The thing that gets me is that people who have not met Darren have not met the real Darren.

That's probably true (to varying degrees) of everyone here. After all, the forum & the real world are two very different things!

DJMaxG
01-08-2009, 04:46 PM
to much info to quote on - sounds like you had a good time :beer1:

DJWilson
01-08-2009, 04:59 PM
Its nice to hear that you had a good time and other DJs from this forum can work with each other for a different view of how other mobile DJs work and please a crowd. good read.

Cj_The_Dj
01-08-2009, 05:18 PM
Really good read, I'm jealous.

djsteve10
01-08-2009, 05:28 PM
Great read Charlie. Keep up the good work and I hope you have found a driver for tonight.

Charlie Brown
01-08-2009, 06:47 PM
Thank you for all the kind words....Darren should be the one getting the credit here!

Well I'm at the venue now playing back ground music (Baby it's you-The Shirelles)

For a start the music sounds a lot better. I have two speakers on stands (spread out either side) and then my two class d speakers next to the stand. I would normally just stack them on top of each other.

When I arrived home I went to my local wilkinsons and brought some garden ties....therefore you can't see any wires anymore! Looks a lot better. I took extra time in making sure the star cloth was tight.

Darren is right, all the little things you do, mount up and give a proffessional feel to the whole rig and event.

Charlie Brown
01-08-2009, 08:56 PM
I have also used the microphone a lot more tonight.

Took the mic out of these men dancing....told the guests that this is me being selfish and that this particular song is a favorite of mine, encouraged people to get up dancing...

....already I have been booked for anniversary! I'm not kidding...I'm a new boy (man) :D

Starlight
01-08-2009, 09:58 PM
And Mr Thomas isn't Mr Grumpy then! ;) :P

Easy now, easy :p :D ;) LOL!

Neil.

Shakermaker Promotions
02-08-2009, 12:00 AM
Charlie, Firstly...I've got the hump...you've done a longer post than me (cheers Tom!)..
Secondly, you remind me of myself you really do. You have such enthusiasm for the whole thing that it's really cool to see (and read). How you survived a weekend with Mr Grumpy himself is a miracle (that's a JOKE by the way)...Seriously, Kudos to Darren for entertaining you all weekend both at his home and in his job. I'm really glad that you have learnt stuff from Darren and that it's already working for you mate. The best thing that anyone wanting to learn the trade can do, is to go out with someone good and you picked the right person.

Well done to you both and keep up the good work.

Charlie Brown
02-08-2009, 12:08 AM
Cheers Garry...means a lot :) :approve:

Excalibur
02-08-2009, 08:13 AM
it was nice meeting you charlie glad you had a good time

Action Man lol

Hmmmmm. To get an inkling of the relationship between Darren and Lee, it may be useful to consider the Swan.

On the surface, regal and serene, cool calm and assured, making stately and apparently effortless progress.

Underneath, two legs paddling like the clappers. ;) :D :D :D

gaza
02-08-2009, 09:57 AM
I have also used the microphone a lot more tonight.

Took the mic out of these men dancing....told the guests that this is me being selfish and that this particular song is a favorite of mine, encouraged people to get up dancing...

....already I have been booked for anniversary! I'm not kidding...I'm a new boy (man) :D

Well done Charlie.
It looks like the trip to Darrens has given you much more confidence and you will quickly learn how much or how little that you can have a bit of banter with people at a gig.
I covered a Party a few weeks ago and you could tell
that they were the sort of people that were up for a good time, so when they had there food ( which was from a Kebab stall that was set up in the Venue :) ) i said over the microphone " well ladies and gentlemen, there is only one song that i can play at the start of the buffet/Kebab break and it is this".









10cc Oh Donna :D :D

Not sure if you will have heard it Charlie because of your age, but it got lotts of laughs from the guests and a big thumbs up from the client, it was also the best tasting Kebab that i have ever had.

Adam_F
02-08-2009, 12:53 PM
10 out of 10 for Darren to inviting you into his home for the weekend.

Its great to see the younger generation willing to learn, good on you for going Charlie!

I see so many people day in day out (both young and old) wanting to become a mobile DJ, but they have the attitude that they know it all, and they could not possibly take any advise from others :bang:

Solitaire Events Ltd
02-08-2009, 02:20 PM
I arrived at Reading station with my 26 suitcases and spent around 15 minutes having a wild goose chase with Darren. It was exactly like a bigger version of hide and seek in the rain.

26 suitcases with 10 just for hair products. :D

What Charlie didn't tell you was I was sat waiting for him and on the phone trying to guide him in...and he still didn't see the van when I was about 20 yards in front of him!



After a nice lounge around the house, a gorgeous pork dinner and observing him in the office

Observing me working it should say...;) If anyone wants to try the recipe, let me know. It as pork tenderloin in parmasan breadcrumbs with a mushroom and cream sauce.


The tom tom estimated that it would take approximately 1 hour, but Darren being a “professional” allowed an extra half an hour. The journey actually took 2 hours! The motorway had major traffic jams but on the other hand it allowed me to watch the planes coming to and from Heathrow. Something else I learnt....always allow plenty of time when travelling to a gig. Due to the traffic we did arrive 30 minutes later then we had anticipated but luckily they were still eating.

Slightly embarrassing arriving late, when I bang on how important it is to not be late. Two hours to get just under 70 miles though..:(


but he did help me out and gave me the gaffa tape job. Funnily enough, he didn’t give me that job the next night? ;)

The less said the better :sj:


Another lesson I learnt...as long as the guests can hear what you are saying then it doesn’t matter what you’re saying. There is nothing worse than having a DJ speak into the microphone and people can’t understand what he is saying.

What Charlie is trying to say is that as long as you speak clearly and slowly, you don't have to be an expert MC etc. I pride myself on my introductions to the B&G and my mic technique.


Even at venues just be laid back and tell them what they want to hear “Hello there my name is Darren. What time would you like the music to finish? Ah that’s great...volume wise, if it’s ever too loud then please do come and tell me and I will turn it down. I never play over...because let’s face it, you want to get home so do I **laughs** Where do you want me to setup Sir? Fantastic that’s not a problem...we will try and pack away as quick as we can too.”

This makes me sound rather arse licky, but I certainly am not. I 'ingratiate' very well and people know they can trust us and know they are working with professionals. Both venues on Thursday and Saturday asked for cards. All it takes is a little common sense, politeness and professionalism.



he lets me have a dance with the guests! I’m beckoned to the dancefloor by this 49 year old who is a mother of 10 :sj: She asks me if I’m wearing a wig...that’s as far as the conversation went! After having a boogie, Darren couldn’t resist to say “Don’t bruise him girls...his Mother would kill me!” I didn’t go red at all.....

Not much...The women in question start touching and poking Charlie's hair and I tell then not to, as I had hair liike that 10 years ago and people used to feel mine and look at what's happened to mine! :D


Darren has a drink or 10 and he forces me to drink this wine! :D :eek: He starts telling me a few stories that I find very amusing....
....off to bed at 4.45am!

I had had half a lager and it lasted to 5:30am. :o



Darren is a great man. Funny, cherry, short tempered and he was happy to help me. He has given me oodles of advice and I’m so grateful for the wonderful experience. The children are really polite, the wife is kind and Darren is Darren. :sj: I don’t think he realises how much I enjoyed the past few days....no matter how tired I got. To be fair it wasn’t just the disco’s I enjoyed but just being in someone else’s company was nice...I like Darren and hopefully it won’t be too long till we will meet again.

That's very kind. I didn't know I was cherry though? :p

It was an absolute pleasure Charlie and all the family enjoyed having you here. I sometimes forget how intense my life is and I do tend to burn the candle at both ends! As Charlie probably realised I am incredibly passionate about this industry and it was a pleasure to help a younger DJ and give him a few ideas. 'Perception' is a word I use a lot and I think he understands why I do now.

On a personal level, Charlie is a charming young man. He has a few 'teenage' traits that were to be expected...:p and I could see he felt slightly awkward in certain circumstances. The spare bedroom looked like a bomb had hit it after only a couple of hours...

He also has a young naivety and honesty about him which is refreshing and endearing and I hope he doesn't turn into an old cynic like me.

It was strange talking to him as he looks and acts more mature than his 16 years (most of the time!) and sometimes I found myself forgetting and talking about stuff that he definitely wasn't alive for and had never heard of!

For me, it was a nice experience having Charlie around, sometimes like having a trainee and sometimes like having an older son. He is a respectful, balanced and polite young man and welcome back anytime.

....and I can't believe he didn't mention some of the mixing I was doing. :bang: :D

Charlie and other young DJs are the future, so let's embrace them and help all we can.

Daryll
02-08-2009, 02:37 PM
If anyone wants to try the recipe, let me know. It as pork tenderloin in parmasan breadcrumbs with a mushroom and cream sauce.





I await this recipe with drooling tongue :D :D

Daryll

Charlie Brown
02-08-2009, 02:41 PM
I await this recipe with drooling tongue :D :D

Daryll

Seriously...it was lovely.

Superb speech Darren :D Have you been practicing for that best man job? :sj:

SC Events
02-08-2009, 02:44 PM
Excellent read Charlie, glad you enjoyed yourself with "The Master" :D

Darren, :youdaman: :lol:

Solitaire Events Ltd
02-08-2009, 02:51 PM
I await this recipe with drooling tongue :D :D

Daryll

Attached for you.

Daryll
02-08-2009, 02:55 PM
Thanks Darren :thumbs_up: :clap:
As it happens I went to the Cranleigh Show this morning , and brought some hand made butter.
And so to the Kitchen.................

Thanks again mate

Daryll

theoloyla
02-08-2009, 02:55 PM
Well done Charlie and well done Darren.

DeckstarDeluxe
02-08-2009, 02:56 PM
I cant imagine anyone on here doing that for a young dj (sorry if Im wrong) so fair play to you Darren.

Penfold42
03-08-2009, 03:11 PM
Nice one to both of you. :cool:

Shakermaker Promotions
03-08-2009, 04:45 PM
I cant imagine anyone on here doing that for a young dj (sorry if Im wrong) so fair play to you Darren.

If I had the time then I wouldn't have a problem with it at all. I have always worked on my own and have never had 'roadies' or anything and it's the way I like it. I don't have a problem with having someone there 'learning' but I would be worried that I would come across the wrong way as I get into what I am doing and would probably appear ignorant OR...the other way round...I would probably be more involved with the person I am showing the ropes that it may affect my performance?

I've had lots of people ask me if they can help me out or come along to watch me and to be honest, I always say "no, it's ok". I may well change my mind in the future though.

PropellerHeadCase
03-08-2009, 06:06 PM
I'm rapidly coming to the conclusion that a roadie is my next must-have upgrade.

rob1963
03-08-2009, 06:23 PM
I'm rapidly coming to the conclusion that a roadie is my next must-have upgrade.

I know where you're coming from.

I've been doing discos on my own for over 15 years now, and on the two or three occasions where my brother has come along to help me, the difference has been amazing.

Also, last Friday's wedding was up a flight of stairs, but about 8 of the wedding party came to help me carry the gear up, and the whole process probably took a couple of minutes!

I was amazed...and VERY grateful!

Solitaire Events Ltd
03-08-2009, 06:33 PM
If I had the time then I wouldn't have a problem with it at all.

I have 2 kids, run 3 football teams, a full time business and still made time for Charlie. ;)

Ask him how busy I was when he was here. :)

visualdjmax
03-08-2009, 06:40 PM
I cant imagine anyone on here doing that for a young dj (sorry if Im wrong) so fair play to you Darren.

You mean you are not having Max G round next week mate?

Excalibur
03-08-2009, 07:28 PM
I have 2 kids, run 3 football teams, a full time business and still made time for Charlie. ;)

Ask him how busy I was when he was here. :)

Apparently not too busy to be head chef. ;) :D

Tony Scott
03-08-2009, 07:51 PM
Hope Darren paid you for your help Charlie! :D

I usually just glaze over and tune out with long posts like this but I really enjoyed reading it.....nice one Charlie and respect to Darren for his hospitality! :approve:

Solitaire Events Ltd
03-08-2009, 08:00 PM
Apparently not too busy to be head chef. ;) :D

That's why I was busy - trying to fit the cooking in too.

It's alright for you simple Northern folk who eat lard on toast. :sj:

Excalibur
03-08-2009, 08:14 PM
That's why I was busy - trying to fit the cooking in too.

It's alright for you simple Northern folk who eat lard on toast. :sj:

I'm really going to struggle explaining Haute Cuisine to you lot, aren't I ? :confused:

PropellerHeadCase
03-08-2009, 08:23 PM
Haute cuisine or bloat cuisine?

Charlie Brown
03-08-2009, 08:38 PM
Darren is a busy man. God knows how he does it and run a full time successful business.

I have all on with going to get my hair cut...never mind all of that!

Excalibur
03-08-2009, 08:44 PM
Nah, I'm joking. Darren is a busy man. God knows how he does it and run a full time successful business.

I have all on with going to get my hair cut...never mind all of that!

That gets easier with age Charlie. ;) I get mine cut once a year, whether it needs it or not. ;)

daz226
04-08-2009, 12:34 AM
well what a awesome read and i have just got back from working under reading station on platform 4 but i have to say i really ejoyed reading this post.

Charlie is one for future to watch out for and from what he was to what he is now the change is awesome. I gave him a few bits n bobs for his disco that i dont require and i love the way he has put them to good use his shows have come on so good. Spending time with Darren i am sure will have a massive impact on the way he operates in future and all credit to Darren for taking him under his wing its extreamly refreshing.

btw Darren if reading is at a standstill on the Aug bank holiday its not my fault honest:p

Charlie Brown
04-08-2009, 01:26 AM
and all credit to Darren for taking him under his wing its extreamly refreshing.

Agreed.

Your gear has been put to very good use too! :) :approve:

Penfold42
20-08-2009, 07:41 PM
It's alright for you simple Northern folk who eat lard on toast. :sj:

....and what's wrong with lard on toast.....:mad:


:p :D :D :D :D :D :D