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StarZSoundS
31-12-2010, 03:13 PM
I've done thousands of Functions....and coped admirably well even when equipment has played up.:) :)

I'm working at my local WMC and it seems as though the whole Village is coming tonight....Folk who I have formed friendships with after working for them.:) :)


I've done Christmas Eve and Boxing Monday with the same gear and it sounded gorgeous.I have the Countdown and Auld Lang Syne sorted and the Glo-stsix and connectors lined up.:) :)


Anyone else want to own up to being a little apprehensive tonight???

Charlie Brown
31-12-2010, 03:14 PM
Glowsticks?

I'm very nervous but excited. I like being nervous - It keeps you realistic and in the game. People who aren't nervous can be too laid back IMO.

StarZSoundS
31-12-2010, 03:16 PM
Glowsticks?

I'm very nervous but excited. I like being nervous - It keeps you realistic and in the game. People who aren't nervous can be too laid back IMO.



Your Old Dears would love them tonight!!:D :D :D

Charlie Brown
31-12-2010, 03:18 PM
Your Old Dears would love them tonight!!:D :D :D

:lol:

What are you planning on doing with them?

StarZSoundS
31-12-2010, 03:27 PM
:lol:

What are you planning on doing with them?


Just dosh em out to all and sundry.....it helps the atmosphere.May take along some inflatable guitars....get them singing and clapping along....play some drinking games...you know all the stuff from Butlins in the 70's.Thats what they're used to from me now....in fact thats what they're coming for!!:)

They've got a surprise tho....as the Charts are now Laden with half decent stuff I'm going to slip some of that in!!I had some of them fast dancing to Bruno Mars on Christmas Eve.....:D :D :D

Creature
31-12-2010, 03:30 PM
i always get nervious big butterflys often physically sick before a gig - those around me know to leave me alone till ive got a few songs under me belt

Charlie Brown
31-12-2010, 03:32 PM
i always get nervious big butterflys often physically sick before a gig - those around me know to leave me alone till ive got a few songs under me belt

Huh?

Before every gig?

StarZSoundS
31-12-2010, 03:36 PM
Its knowing that if my equipment is going to be ok(which it is 99% of the time) I'm going to storm them....

If it doesn't ....i'm going to look like I'm some 15 year-old on a project from the Duke of Edinburgh award sheme............

Solitaire Events Ltd
31-12-2010, 03:51 PM
Anyone else want to own up to being a little apprehensive tonight???

Yep, me.

I hate NYE. Always have. Always will.

Forced enjoyment IMO and I always feel pressure to make it 'fantastic'.

paulg
31-12-2010, 03:55 PM
Relax - it's just another night except it has ding dongs at the end of it.

StarZSoundS
31-12-2010, 03:59 PM
Forced enjoyment IMO and I always feel pressure to make it 'fantastic'.


You're being very honest today:) :) :)


I know what you mean about forced enjoyment as well.There will people coming up wanting to shake hands....just like they did last NYE....And I haven't seen them at the Club all year...jars me off!!!;) ;) ;) ;)


Balloon Net for next year...please remind me!!:) :) :)

ppentertainments
31-12-2010, 04:01 PM
Yep, me.

I hate NYE. Always have. Always will.

Forced enjoyment IMO and I always feel pressure to make it 'fantastic'.
One reason I hate NYE. I think it is the most 'false' time of the year.

StarZSoundS
31-12-2010, 04:02 PM
Relax - it's just another night except it has ding dongs at the end of it.


You ain't got a spare DJ have you Paul....just been asked!!??I've told them no....but can ressurect it for you if you wish!!

Excalibur
31-12-2010, 04:03 PM
Anyone else want to own up to being a little apprehensive tonight???
Re the gig, no. No pressure, a crowd I've seen a lot, local social club.

The only thing I am apprehensive about, is whether I can whup the young DJ across te raod again, for the third year running. I reckon he edged it Xmas Eve. :o :o :o Mind you, he did start much earlier in the day than me.

Yep, me.

I hate NYE. Always have. Always will.
Forced enjoyment IMO and I always feel pressure to make it 'fantastic'.
You never cease to amaze me. :eek: :eek:

Corabar Entertainment
31-12-2010, 04:07 PM
You ain't got a spare DJ have you Paul....just been asked!!??I've told them no....but can ressurect it for you if you wish!!
How about Booche? He's at a loose end and not a million miles away.

StarZSoundS
31-12-2010, 04:13 PM
How about Booche? He's at a loose end and not a million miles away.



Transport Problem...I would think.The most it would be for would be 50 folk I would think....so its not going to be a great payer.....but happy to try and help him.....good idea!!He can stop at mine too!!:) :) :)

Corabar Entertainment
31-12-2010, 04:22 PM
Well, it's worth an ask, anyhow. :)

StarZSoundS
31-12-2010, 04:27 PM
Well, it's worth an ask, anyhow. :)


Definately Angela Thanks...


Paulg is in Sheffield which is much closer and his boys will have transport....Think he has loads out tho.



Its the Landladies fault...she's just had a baby and it has disorientated her....forgot to book me!!Never Mind!!:) :)

Megamix
31-12-2010, 04:28 PM
If you don't have the stress/nervous before most gigs feeling you won't do a very good job IMHO - it sharpens the mind and makes you want to try - if you just turn up and go through the same laborious routine, you don't have the passion.

Jonathan Ford
31-12-2010, 04:39 PM
Yep, me.

I hate NYE. Always have. Always will.

Forced enjoyment IMO

Amen to that...in exactly the same boat. The date changes....like it does every day.

abracadabradisco
31-12-2010, 04:56 PM
That's right, just another night with the ding dongs. Different for me as I am in a pub and haven't done a pub night for about 4 years.
I am more at ease than usual as the gig has been contracted by another dj and he was having trouble to find someone to do it. After about 2 hrs he was told I had been cancelled so offered it to me after taking his cut.
I must admit I will point out to them that if they had accepted my earlier quote (than his later one) I could have done it for sure.
I will have a very basic rig and apart from making sure the Big Ben chimes and Auld Lang Syne are ok I am not bothered at all about it.

'Don't Worry. Be Happy'

Shaun
31-12-2010, 04:58 PM
If you don't have the stress/nervous before most gigs feeling you won't do a very good job IMHO - it sharpens the mind and makes you want to try - if you just turn up and go through the same laborious routine, you don't have the passion.

I'd have to disagree with that. I put the same into events now just as I did in the days I used to get nervous, in fact, that's not quite correct. I put more into them now.

abracadabradisco
31-12-2010, 05:04 PM
My quote was turned down but for that I would have used a rig with moving heads and maybe multicolour laser plus some mood lights but as I am now getting less than 3/4 of my quote I am not giving them all that I originally quoted for. The pub have gone for a cheaper disco so they get a bit less gear but I will still put a good night on, after 42 years I always do. Just I am not humping and setting up so much gear for a lower fee.

paulg
31-12-2010, 05:05 PM
You ain't got a spare DJ have you Paul....just been asked!!??I've told them no....but can ressurect it for you if you wish!!

Sorry mate. Someone leaving it late aren't they. I've four out this evening. Others are partying themselves or are away so the cupboard is bare.

StarZSoundS
31-12-2010, 05:09 PM
Sorry mate. Someone leaving it late aren't they. I've four out this evening. Others are partying themselves or are away so the cupboard is bare.


No probz Mate....I thought that was the case....

Read back through the thread and it will make more sense...hormones etc

Hope you have a great New Year....:beer1: :beer1: :beer1: :beer1:

sleah
31-12-2010, 06:38 PM
Its knowing that if my equipment is going to be ok(which it is 99% of the time) I'm going to storm them....

If it doesn't ....i'm going to look like I'm some 15 year-old on a project from the Duke of Edinburgh award sheme............

I'm the same. I hate how even the slightest thing can really throw you and knock your confidence:(


Always have. Always will.
There's a song in there somewhere:D

Relax -
Oh! and another one....:cool:

'Don't Worry. Be Happy'
YAY! and another!:D:D:beer1:

I'm reasonably confident about tonight, but still got butterflies...
Got the chimes and Auld lang sorted out, worked out the back timing for the Ben and syncronised clocks and watches:D

Creature
01-01-2011, 02:56 AM
Before every gig?

yep Charlie even tonights gig was sick with tension or stress or what ever it is

Corabar Steve
01-01-2011, 09:52 AM
Forced enjoyment IMO and I always feel pressure to make it 'fantastic'.
No pressure from my crowd at all. A real party crowd only about 5 or so under 35 & no (from the looks of it anyway)part time drinkers who feel they have to drink the equivalent of their bodyweight to enjoy themselves.

I can't remember being told how good it was by so many for quite a while, which is odd because I thought I was below par & felt decidedly under the weather, which Angela put down to nerves. I don't get nervous when DJing. Never have. Although weirdly it did feel like butterflies & I had no appetite. What a time in my career to develop nervousness if it is.

Tom Lovick
01-01-2011, 10:07 AM
I was nervous for the first part of last nights gig but my 9:45 - 10 ish i calmed down and really got into it :p

Did a bit of mic work, announcing song requests, midnight etc, my main fear at the moment is thinking i'm going to make a fool of myself on the mic.

Need to overcome this......

Excalibur
01-01-2011, 11:42 AM
No pressure from my crowd at all. A real party crowd only about 5 or so under 35 & no (from the looks of it anyway)part time drinkers who feel they have to drink the equivalent of their bodyweight to enjoy themselves.

I can't remember being told how good it was by so many for quite a while, which is odd because I thought I was below par & felt decidedly under the weather, which Angela put down to nerves. I don't get nervous when DJing. Never have. Although weirdly it did feel like butterflies & I had no appetite. What a time in my career to develop nervousness if it is.
Drunks? Well it's a good job I was set upon a pool table, cos a deckstand would have ended up next door, with the :Censored:s falling into it. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
Nerves? I'm not surprised Steve, I've always thought you were sensitive and highly strung. ;)


I was nervous for the first part of last nights gig but my 9:45 - 10 ish i calmed down and really got into it :p

Did a bit of mic work, announcing song requests, midnight etc, my main fear at the moment is thinking i'm going to make a fool of myself on the mic. Need to overcome this......
There's no real advice we can give you on this. To us old school wobblegobs it's second nature. Time and experience will help. Be calm, don't rush, and be clear.

Daryll
01-01-2011, 11:54 AM
I always get a bit nervy before a gig , after a sound check I feel much better , other nervy moments are as you press play for a first dance.
And last night , making sure my NYE mix started at 11:54:31 , I had to cut "time warp" a few second short.

Daryll