View Full Version : Who do you prefer to deal with?
Solitaire Events Ltd
04-09-2007, 09:13 PM
When taking a booking and dealing with clients for a wedding reception?
The Bride, her Mother or maybe the Groom?
Who do you prefer and why?
Vectis
04-09-2007, 09:19 PM
The bride.
For some reason I always "get on" with women easier than men :rolleyes: No, not like that :p
Whenever it's the groom, he's usually acting under orders from the bride anyway, so everything takes twice as long.
Don't think I've ever had to deal with a bride's mother before.... :confused:
DMX Will
04-09-2007, 09:42 PM
Bride. Just do.
Penfold42
04-09-2007, 09:57 PM
Any...as long as they have a brain cell..................:D :D :D
Corabar Steve
04-09-2007, 10:34 PM
The bride.
For some reason I always "get on" with women easier than men :rolleyes: No, not like that :p
Whenever it's the groom, he's usually acting under orders from the bride anyway, so everything takes twice as long.
Me too
Don't think I've ever had to deal with a bride's mother before.... :confused:I have, it was torture!
rob1963
04-09-2007, 10:46 PM
The bride, without a doubt...mainly because they seem to be better at organizing & saying what they want than the grooms do.
I find that about 75% of the time it's the bride who makes the booking with me anyway, so things work out fine.
:)
PropellerHeadCase
04-09-2007, 10:50 PM
It's not really down to who, so much as what. A sensible level-headed person who understands the dynamics of music in an environment like a wedding is easier to deal with than someone with ridiculous and/or ill-educated demands. I most often deal with brides, and am generally able to set up a good rapport. But, being a bloke, getting a rapport going with the groom is easy, too. Oftentimes the music is the only thing that the groom is allowed to organize.
I've dealt with several mothers of the bride, and chief bridesmaids, too, when the bride is overseas.
Have a disco
04-09-2007, 10:55 PM
When taking a booking and dealing with clients for a wedding reception?
The Bride, her Mother or maybe the Groom?
Who do you prefer and why?
Bride everytime its her special day
followed by groom then mother or father,
9/10 I visit the bride n groom personally
Dragonfly
05-09-2007, 07:39 AM
bride and groom ....... i like to go and meet both so i can put faces to names and get an idea of the kind of people they both are and start to plan ideas for the night with them.
Corabar Steve
05-09-2007, 10:58 AM
It's good to meet both before hand, but one will always take the lead & brides tend to be a bit more focused on the event.
PropellerHeadCase
05-09-2007, 11:44 AM
Yep, that says it succinctly.
Larry B Entertainment
05-09-2007, 02:50 PM
Either, i dont mind.
CRAZY K
05-09-2007, 04:19 PM
When taking a booking and dealing with clients for a wedding reception?
The Bride, her Mother or maybe the Groom?
Who do you prefer and why?
In my case usually the Brides Mum ( because we are likely to be similar ages:D ) but generally get on well with all. Strange, the Brides Dad doesnt phone does he--even though he is possibly paying out a lot of the money and to the DJ/ Entertainer.
Brides and Grooms seem fairly price sensitive ( maybe im charging too much ? ) whereas the parents seem more interested in having good entertainment and not worrying so much--probably when they hear your going to play some of THEIR music!!!!!!!!!
Rice tells me he is involved with a lot of Weddings now so his answer should be a good indicator ( think hes on Holiday now)
So which do you prefer Daz?
CRAZY K
soundmaster mobile disco
05-09-2007, 04:23 PM
Definatly the bride for me.
Solitaire Events Ltd
05-09-2007, 05:14 PM
So which do you prefer Daz?
Actually, I don't really have a preference.
I suppose the bride when talking about the timings and logistics, the groom when talking about music and the brides mother when talking about payment..;)
Barclay's Beats
06-09-2007, 12:03 AM
It's all down to personalities, some brides can be very difficult and the same can be said for some grooms. Nine times out of 10 it's the bride who organises everything and most are perfectly reasonable. So to answer your question, I'm not fussed as long as they're nice and don't keep changing their mind.
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