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Shakermaker Promotions
25-11-2007, 01:25 AM
Hi all,

Just got in from doing a 40th birthday party and what a wierd night it was!!
Nice big venue, good stage and the 2 x Dynarocks, 2 x LittLED's, Wildtech Fascination and Lasers plus haze looked really good in there. The sound was nice too BUT...whatever I played, hardly anyone danced to it. There must have been around 60 guests but at the most there must have been 10 dancing.

A lot of families there and some oldies and they left around 10.30pm (I was booked from 7.30pm - Midnight). The barman came over and said that they weren't making enough money over the bar so would I call last orders early. Honestly, 4 1/2 hours felt like double that..it was almost embarassing to be stood up there 'entertaining'.

Anyway, I chucked on 'Tainted Love' (12") and nipped outside for a fag (I don't normally) around 11pm and the birthday boy and his girlfriend were outside. Would you believe they asked me to do their wedding next year!!!!?!? When I went back inside, someone had left a note for me on my decks for some 'cheesy' music...I just went with it and played the usual stuff, 'Grease', 'Cha Cha Slide' etc etc...and the people that were left all got up. This narked me a bit because there were request slips on all the tables with pens and I mentioned a number of times that I was open to requests but not one person bothered, almost as if they were embarassed.

By the last song (a request for 'Amarillo') there were around 20 people left and when the lights went up and I said "good night", they all clapped and a few of them came over and asked me for cards and said they'd had a great night. This has happened once or twice to me in all the time I have been DJing. I'm not narked off now because I think that if they enjoyed it then that's all that matters. Yes, it would have been nice if they had danced as that's what we're there for in the first place but at the end of the day, not everyone wants to dance.

As I said, wierd night!!

Dillmiester
25-11-2007, 02:46 AM
I spose its not all that strange when you considor not everyone that goes to a birthday party likes music.
Maybe 70% - 80% of people like music.
Maybe 50% or less of those people like music enough to dance in public to it.

But like you said people enjoyed themselves but didnt want to dance. Its a hard one for a DJ to get his/her head around though.

PropellerHeadCase
25-11-2007, 03:37 AM
Happens all the time - some people just don't dance, or need a full tank of Dutch courage, like my gig last night. Of the bride and groom's 15 'must play' requests 10-12 were from between 1977 & 1983 and all of the requests, bar one, were rock... they'd also requested no Reggae, no R'n'B, no Swing, no Club Dance, etc. Knowing how these sort of gigs go I didn't even try and get people up dancing for the first 90 minutes, I just played good drinking music ;)

mike8863
25-11-2007, 12:00 PM
I had exactly the same on Friday night, although to make matters worse at the start of the night, the resident dj turned up to check me out as he was miffed, (quite rightly), that the client had booked me....!!!.
2 requests all night, at most 20 people dancing when they did, and the last 2 tunes saw everyone that was left up, well weird.

in the last 48 hrs I've had 3 enquiries, 2 for next saturday, one a wedding?????, and one at 7pm last night for last night, when i was already out.

Whats going on.......??.....!!!!